Day 51:

Moderation

وَكَذَٰلِكَ جَعَلْنَـٰكُمْ أُمَّةًۭ وَسَطًۭا لِّتَكُونُوا۟ شُهَدَآءَ عَلَى ٱلنَّاسِ وَيَكُونَ ٱلرَّسُولُ عَلَيْكُمْ شَهِيدًۭا ۗ

“Thus We made you a moderate community, that you may be witnesses to humanity, and that the Messenger may be a witness to you.”

 

Surah Al-Baqarah 2:143

Coaching Insight

“Do your best.” It’s something we hear all the time, but in reality, our best fluctuates daily, even hourly. Some days we are motivated and full of energy; other days we struggle to even begin. Some moments are filled with hope and inspiration, while others feel the complete opposite.

Most, if not all, expert habit-builders, fitness instructors, nutritionists, and spiritual guides, people considered masters of their fields, swear by consistency and moderation as the key to sustainable growth. This verse carries infinite meanings of moderation, yet through a coaching lens, it invites us to simply keep showing up, even imperfectly. That is where true growth unfolds.

Aristotle described moderation “as one of the moral virtues,” defining it as “the mean between extremes,” while Plato, in The Republic, described it as “the harmony between one’s spirit, desires, and reason.”

The Prophet (PBUH) was the example of moderation. His life was a living reminder that balance is not about doing everything, but about doing what matters consistently, with dedication and sincerity. When he was asked about the deeds most loved by the Divine, he responded: 

“The most regular constant deeds even though they may be few.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 6465).

To follow him is to walk the path of grace, to stay steady between effort and ease, between striving and surrender , the middle path where the human heart meets the Divine.

“Never go to excess, but let moderation be your guide.”

Marcus Tuitius Cicero

Daily Practice

Moderation applies to every aspect of life.

Reflect on your daily habits:

    • Which behaviors take up most of your time?
    • How much time do you spend on social media?
    • What kind of food do you eat?
    • How do you balance socializing and solitude?

Try using a mood or energy tracker to observe how your emotions and energy shift throughout the day. Observe which activities nourish you and which ones drain you.

Instead of making drastic changes, take small steps in the areas where you’d like more balance. Remember: moderation isn’t about restriction, it’s about sustainability.

Book Reference

“In a world that celebrates dramatic transformations and quick fixes, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of going from zero to one hundred in the blink of an eye. We’re bombarded with images of rapid success and overnight wonders, leaving us feeling inadequate when our own progress seems slow by comparison. But here’s the secret: true and lasting change is far more achievable when we embrace gradual progress and shift our focus from extremes to a moderate lifestyle.” 

Your Life in Moderation: A Guide for the Most of Us – Gibran Oliver

“Allah’s Messenger said, 

“O `Abdullah! Have I not been informed that you fast all the day and stand in prayer all night?” I said, “Yes, O Allah’s Messenger!” He said, “Do not do that! Observe the fast sometimes and also leave them (the fast) at other times; stand up for the prayer at night and also sleep at night. Your body has a right over you, your eyes have a right over you and your wife has a right over you.””

 

Prophet Muhammed (PBUH); Hadith; Sahih al-Bukhari